The Squeeze
The person who owns this handshake needs to show their power and control. Remember, it's a hand not a lemon.
The Sad Halibut
At the other extreme we have the dead fish. This person puts his limp, clammy hand in yours, exerting absolutely no pressure. You may find it hard to distinguish between the person's hand and a sad halibut. You have little or no self-confidence and you find it very difficult to deal with people.
The Sweaty Handshaker
No explanation required.
Finger Shaker
Some people shake only fingers. Your message is "Stay away from me. I don't even really want to be here".
Dominator
The handshake can also suggest that a person feels in some way superior. Often a person extends his hand palm down, suggesting that your hand should be underneath. Another might take your hand normally and then twist it so that his own is on top. Their message is "I am the boss of you".
I Want You
My favourite is this one. This is the handshake where you skipped right past the shake and went straight to holding hands.
The Perfect Handshake
Look the other person in the eye. Take his hand. You should press palm to palm and grip firmly but not viciously. Congratulations!
--Priti Ramjee
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